Stop playing the victim

We are living in precious time, we are not being us to have the world, just ourselves of the internal pain and conflict thats seems to be endless. How can peace come to the world? if we cannot even find peace in our heart.If we are not responsible for ourselves, then who is? If i blame another or blame circumstances that seems to be beyond my control. Then i am a victim, and someone else control my life. This is not the role God would have us play.:)